• For the Breast of Us

    BADDIE BLOGS

    Our mission is to empower women of color affected by breast cancer to make the rest of their lives the best of their lives through education, advocacy and community.

Cancer prepared me to live life everyday to the fullest

In 2014, at the age of 36, I felt I was thriving in life.

I had a great career in teaching.

I was living on my own in an area that always had something going on.

I had great friends and family to spend time with.

I was in great shape.

Everything was going well in my life and then BAM! Outta nowhere, after a doctor’s visit and a mammogram, I get hit with the most devastating news in my life — I have stage IIB breast cancer.

The news was like a punch in the gut and I immediately thought I was going to die. Thoughts of “how can I have cancer?” and “I’m too young to have cancer” kept running through my mind.

I mean, I want to get married and have a family someday and you’re telling me I have a disease that could possibly kill me? I just knew my days were numbered.

I immediately began having tests ran and treatment started shortly after. Three months of chemo, followed by surgery and three months of radiation.

Treatment seemed like an eternity.

As I was going through treatment, I was determined to have the mindset that I am going to beat this. I knew that half my battle was having a positive attitude even on those days I felt like crap.

I drew strength from my faith in God, my family, friends, colleagues and sorority sisters. With their love and support, I was able to finish treatment and beat cancer!

Now that cancer is behind me, there are many lessons I learned as I went through this journey.

One lesson I learned was to love those that showed love and support to you. During my journey, I lost some friends and family members. Although it was a hurtful feeling, the love and support I received from others made everything ok.

Another lesson I learned is to never let your faith waiver. There were times when I felt angry with God because I had cancer. I often times felt scared and fear was trying to set in. I knew it was no one but the enemy trying to defeat me. I fought back by staying in God’s word and speaking life and healing over myself.

The most important lesson I felt I learned through this journey was to live life to the fullest. You can be healthy one day and the next you can get sick and your life changes forever.

I know tomorrow is not promised, so I make it my business to live each day like it’s my last. I try not to sweat the small stuff and not worry about things that I cannot change or have any control over.

Today, I am so blessed to reach a big milestone in this journey.

I celebrate FIVE years in remission!

Each day is treated like a gift from God because so many have succumbed to the disease. Every year that I am cancer free lifts a load off my shoulders. To reach this milestone, I felt a great sense of accomplishment.

It’s given me the confidence and strength to push forward to reach the next milestone and to continue to live life to the fullest cancer free!

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