
Learning to Love my war Wounds
I used to not want to take pictures from the chest down because of how I felt I looked. Now that I am two years out, it has gotten a lot better.
“Tell the story of the mountain you climbed. Your words could become a page in someone else’s survival guide.” — Morgan Harper Nichols

I used to not want to take pictures from the chest down because of how I felt I looked. Now that I am two years out, it has gotten a lot better.

After lots of grounding and affirming, I had to fix my crown and remember who I am and whose I am!

I was then hit with the insta-browsing realization that everyone who has had breast cancer or a preventive mastectomy is in my tribe. Not because I found the #unilateralmastectomy, with gorgeous bodies flaunting all kinds of styles.

I know that beauty is skin deep, but my spirit took a hard hit and we are only beginning to rediscover the feminine goddess within.

But what I’ve come to realize is that I was only interested in “being” Tova 2.0 and not “becoming” Tova 2.0.

Online gallery features imagery and perspectives on post-cancer body image from women of color.

One of the most pivotal things that has made recovering from surgeries and circumventing the side effects of chemotherapy is to MOVE. Being active has made the difference in my overall wellness since my diagnosis.

Living your life with your outward appearance so entrenched in your personal identity can make for extreme emotional issues when cancer takes your hair from you.

My confidence went from zero to bad ass! I just could not stop looking at them and how much I felt like a whole woman again.

Doctors not LISTENING to what I want was genuinely frustrating — and being a doctor myself didn’t make me immune to the frustrations with our healthcare system.